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User:changinglight (3314598)
Learning to love the darkness and the light
A travelogue in many parts
Name:changinglight
Location:Massachusetts, United States
Birthdate:1981-04-06
Bio:I'm interested in passionate conversation. I want to know what moves you, what things keep you up at night, either in joy or pain, or in the grey spaces in between. I want to know about those spaces between the light and the dark, and fellow traveling companions on that shifting journey are always welcome. I'm deeply spiritual, I try not to hold a lot back, and I'm generally pretty forthright. I'm open to deep exploration, and finding the sacred in everyday life.

Quick fun facts:
* My partner Jess and I have been together for seven years and married for two. We're in a
bit of transition now as I'm looking for a job and she's in the process of applying to
seminary (UCC).
* We have two cats.
* Despite my professional social work title, I've also been in (and continue to be in)
mental health treatment at various levels
of intensity for the past seven years. I'm a survivor of childhood sexual, physical, and
emotional abuse and have resulting diagnoses of PTSD and depression.
* I'm not a therapist, but a macro social worker. My passion is in planning and program
development, community organizing, and human services management.
* Books that are really important to me include Jeanette Winterson's Art and Lies, Audre
Lorde's Sister Outsider, and all of Adrienne Rich's poetry.

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Memories::27 entries
Interests:145: adrienne rich, alice walker, anti-racism, apples, art, autumn, barbara brown taylor, battlestar galactica, beauty, being in love, bell hooks, bible, black feminism, books, boston, boston red sox, cats, chocolate ice cream, choral singing, christianity, collages, coloring, commitment, communication, concerts, cuddling, dbt, depression, drawing, dreaming, dykes, emily dickinson, equal rights, faith, falling in love, feminism, feminist theology, firefly, freire, friends, gay marriage, gender, glbt, glbtq, goddess, grad school, grassroots organizing, handwritten letters, healing, hedwig-and-the-angry-inch, holding hands, hot chocolate, human rights, ice cream, ikea, indigo girls, intelligence, jean baker-miller training institute, jeanette winterson, jesus, journals, june jordan, justice, kindness, kissing, lesbians, letters, liberation, liberation theology, loving yourself, macro social work, mad libs, making love, mental illness, mixed cds, movies, music, napping, new crayons, october project, openness, passion, peace, performances, poetry, political social work, politics, practical christianity, practice, prayer, psychotherapy, ptsd, public policy, purple, queer studies, quotes, radical thinking, rain, reading, red sox, relational-cultural theory, relational-cultural therapy, respect, romance, rumi, sacred music, self-exploration, sex, sex positive feminism, sexuality, social justice, social welfare, social work, sociology, spirituality, strawberries, sunsets, swimming, the courage to heal, the daily show, the hours, the indigo girls, the ocean, the sky, the stone center, theatre, theology, thinking, thunder, thunderstorms, toni morrison, tracy chapman, transgender issues, ucc, used bookstores, walking, water, wellness, wholeness, wind, wls, womanism, women, women's studies, writing
Schools:Plainville High School - Plainville, CT (1995 - 1999)
Simmons College - Boston, MA (2001 - 2006)
Boston University, School of Social Work - Boston, MA (2006 - present)
Friends:
People46:alicrehanfeeney, angeloneous, bailey21975, billierector, blessed_harlot, catarzyna, cloudkucooland, dalbino83, dale62676, dbang, elliblue, fatfeistyfemme, fatgirl_dates, fenicedautun, franny0glass, greeneyedgyrl, inimagiodei, jbarron, jennywren129, jetshade, judecorp, kateri_thinks, laus1231, liverpool273, livingwithsoul, maebeth, malakhgabriel, matt_ruff, msworbust, mysexualjourney, naandika_kuota, nectarine_words, nightsinge, on_reserve, paradoxicalme, quackington, reflectmysoul, saucypunk, smallfryeh, stacycat69, stephilyn, tealight_rookie, theoryofgravity, tx_cronopio, vishuddha_spin, yourmamachula
Communities38:_the_firefly_, add_a_feminist, altfriday5, art_therapy, b0st0n_protests, bayarea, bostonbarter, broke_in_boston, eastbay, faith_feminists, fenway_faithful, feral_holiness, firstchurch, gaybay, gbltboston, girlyfans, homos4god, macrosocialwork, mass_dykes, masslezsingles, mclean_alumni, nolose, october_project, ovrheardboston, policyresearch, publicpolicy, queerboston, quincy_ma, simply_prayers, socialwork, south_shore, southofboston, thefridayfive, theology, ucc_peeps, ucc_seminarians, ugly_crap, wls_support
Feeds5:blankstaresrss, postsecret, thegabedotcom, wootdotcom, xkcd_rss
Mutual Friends:40: angeloneous, bailey21975, billierector, blessed_harlot, catarzyna, dalbino83, dale62676, dbang, elliblue, fatfeistyfemme, fatgirl_dates, franny0glass, greeneyedgyrl, inimagiodei, jbarron, jennywren129, jetshade, judecorp, kateri_thinks, laus1231, liverpool273, livingwithsoul, maebeth, malakhgabriel, msworbust, mysexualjourney, naandika_kuota, nectarine_words, on_reserve, paradoxicalme, reflectmysoul, saucypunk, smallfryeh, stacycat69, stephilyn, tealight_rookie, theoryofgravity, tx_cronopio, vishuddha_spin, yourmamachula
Also Friend of:17: barraged, breezyg, bwitched877, clowdydaydream, daisy_down, greyblue_eyes, healingstory, liolai, michalita, punks6, punks6story, saltlesstears, seiberspace, swaflyboy, ticky_t, tigerweebear, zarah_bourdeau
Member of:67: __realtalk, _starbucks, _the_firefly_, add_a_feminist, altfriday5, art_therapy, b0st0n_protests, b0st0nradicals, bayarea, bigbody_yoga, boston_jobs, bostonbarter, bravespilling, broke_in_boston, computertech, daily_gems, disneyweddings, eastbay, embodiment, ernesto_che, faith_feminists, fenway_faithful, feral_holiness, firstchurch, freebiefinder, fundraisingpros, gaybay, gbltboston, girlyfans, grief_sw, homos4god, livingjuicy, loltheorists, lword, lword_uncut, lwordsnark, macrosocialwork, mass_dykes, masslezsingles, mclean_alumni, nolose, october_project, ovrheardboston, pan_mass, payingitforward, policyresearch, psychicafe, publicpolicy, queerboston, queerdisney, quincy_ma, religion_majors, riotsnotdiets, simply_prayers, socialwork, south_shore, southofboston, spiritual_2day, succulent_women, swk_students, theology, ucc_peeps, ucc_seminarians, ugly_crap, weymouthlesbias, wls_support, yoga
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